I see where you're coming from. Lord knows I'm no fan of the Mark Driscoll "If I'd known she'd cheated on me in high school, I wouldn't have married her!" school of thought. But -- I don't know, I just think of "non-exclusive" very differently. Like maybe you're having dinner or going dancing or just hanging out with several different guys, but not *having sex* with several different guys. (And having them take your picture, and . . . bleah.) I wouldn't have liked to see that from either of them -- I'd have felt the same if it had been his picture in somebody's scrapbook.