I haven't read any of these books, I am ashamed to say! I heard of all these women swooning over these men and I feel left out. But then I wonder if I would even like them? I don't always seem to like the sorts of guys other girls do.

Just to use an X Files example, all the women loved Mulder. I did come to love him too, but only like you love a little brother or a bad puppy - they're cute and they mean well, but they're a pain to live with!