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litlover12 ([personal profile] litlover12) wrote2010-03-21 08:06 pm

Of heroes and romance

(Cross-posted at Dickensblog)

Just a few thoughts inspired by my recent viewing of North and South:

It occurs to me that many of the most popular 19th-century romantic heroes are the haughty, brooding ones, and that a lot of these were created by women. Jane Austen's Mr. Darcy, Charlotte Brontë's Mr. Rochester, Emily Brontë's Heathcliff, Elizabeth Gaskell's John Thornton -- they all fit this pattern. (Say what you will about Heathcliff -- I hear a lot of people say nowadays that he shouldn't be considered a romantic hero at all -- but I still think he counts.) This is not to say that Austen and the other women never wrote about sensitive men, or even sensitive heroes, but generally their best known heroes seem to be the proud brooders. There are probably at least five Mr. Darcy fangirls for every Captain Wentworth fangirl.

On the other hand, when Dickens gives us a romantic hero -- say, Arthur Clennam, David Copperfield, or Nicholas Nickleby -- that hero tends to be outwardly gentler and more warm-hearted. A "sensitive male," if you will, though I don't really care for the term. I find it fascinating that these are the sort of romantic heroes that the century's greatest male novelist was creating, while the women were fashioning a very different sort of model.

And personally, I also find it fascinating that the vast majority of modern women prefer the haughty types, while I, a traditionalist in many ways, am so much more drawn to the Dickensian heroes. If one adhered to stereotypes, one might expect it to be the other way around.

What this all means . . . I'm not really sure! But it's interesting to think about. At least, I think it is.

[identity profile] litlover12.livejournal.com 2010-03-22 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
With Mr. Darcy, I think it's a combination of (1) diamond in the rough, as proudmaxfan1418 says below, and (2) the fact that he grows and develops SO MUCH over the course of the story. Without giving too much away, he goes from looking down his nose at someone, to going way out of his way to help her. To the point where he seriously, SERIOUSLY inconveniences himself. It's easy to see the attraction there. I think many a girl loves the thought of having the power to change a man that much. Even I am not wholly immune to it. :-)

On the whole, though, my favorites are the guys who don't have that haughtiness problem to overcome.

But you should see P&P sometime if you get the chance -- the BBC version in particular is so good, I think everyone should see it at least once! The entire thing is so very well cast and so brilliantly done that I think you could enjoy it, even if Darcy did fall short of expectations.

[identity profile] mosinging1986.livejournal.com 2010-03-22 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
I definitely need to. I feel so deprived!